tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post1476533095311082118..comments2023-10-11T07:39:33.769-05:00Comments on This is Worthwhile: And in other news: I dream about sexUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-43106441425647775222010-08-12T09:43:54.575-05:002010-08-12T09:43:54.575-05:00I have sex dreams. lots of them. and i SO FEEL YOU...I have sex dreams. lots of them. and i SO FEEL YOU on this.Allison Zapatahttp://www.meandmine.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-76180232679777457342009-08-15T22:44:31.906-05:002009-08-15T22:44:31.906-05:00Gawd I so understand what you mean. I love this po...Gawd I so understand what you mean. I love this post for its honesty. You're definitely not alone. I find that when I have enough other things going on outside the home - I'm talking things like exercise, socializing with friends, some type of hobby, work - I don't feel so much like a crazed housewife.Lady Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00933248315325429447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-7777311253783881692009-08-15T20:59:33.570-05:002009-08-15T20:59:33.570-05:00Girl you need to get out, have a drink, and get la...Girl you need to get out, have a drink, and get laid. Not necessarily in that order either. I read this and wondered if this is how my mom felt.Kimberly Wrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00011334298854922476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-6143387503755451892009-08-15T13:35:36.877-05:002009-08-15T13:35:36.877-05:00Okay, so I couldnt' find where to post on your...Okay, so I couldnt' find where to post on your blog!! But you are NOT Alone!! I also have dreams and although I can't remember who they are about, I feel guilty bc I rarely initiate anything with DH! But day to day, it's just too hard to feel sexy enough!! I'm too busy cleaning, raising kids whatever!! Also, raising a child IS NOT enough. No matter how much you love him and how much you want to be with him, you do need more. this is where you need to join a moms group. GO to momsclub.org or meetup.com to see what is available. Use the skills you used to use in the bars on the new moms to strike up friendships. Those groups can have ups and downs. My group is on the up. We have a wonderful group of moms. We have Moms Night Out (and it is okay to flirt with others a little). We have Hoot and Howl-dinner potlucks for when our Husbands are Out Of Town or when our Husbands are Out Working Late. We have play dates, field trips, babysitting co-op, and bitch sessions about what our dh did this time or how even though no matter how much we love our little ones, they can (and often do) drive us crazy!<br />As for dates, go on an early picnic dinner. Does your area have free concerts in the park?<br />Well I better get back to motherhood!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-39994238375704491802009-08-15T08:22:31.047-05:002009-08-15T08:22:31.047-05:00Dear god, did you watch Twilight or something?Dear god, did you watch Twilight or something?Anthonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09810967328285189451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-76946229767876401922009-08-15T07:33:34.420-05:002009-08-15T07:33:34.420-05:00I wish I knew what to say... but maybe there are a...I wish I knew what to say... but maybe there are a few things you can do... One being that when your man gets home, do whatever you can to even somewhat satisfy those urges. Just because you are homebound doesn't mean you can't dress up a little, put on some make up, etc. I find that even doing that, though I don't go out much and I am also happily married, I feel better about myself. It's so easy to get comfortable and not do the things we used to do before kids/marriage... what is really SO different now that you can't do those things? (pinkypie on twitter)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-31917527395192814542009-08-15T05:57:13.356-05:002009-08-15T05:57:13.356-05:00Go out. If you can. Go out, dress up and see that ...Go out. If you can. Go out, dress up and see that world you have been missing. You might find that you don't miss it as much as you thought. But it is good to go out every once in awhile.Capital Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10169811675874649402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-89766487275795557092009-08-14T23:36:11.506-05:002009-08-14T23:36:11.506-05:00I could have easily written this post not too long...I could have easily written this post not too long ago. I don't know if I've grown more comfortable with this life or just accepted that it's not the same. I wish I had an answer for you.Summerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13389913096175428814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-37315191020968738492009-08-14T20:39:49.786-05:002009-08-14T20:39:49.786-05:00If I weren't on my iPhone, I'd have length...If I weren't on my iPhone, I'd have lengthy responses to all. As it stands, this will have to do:<br />@babyinbroad: aye aye, Captain.<br />@Amber: Will do. Over & out.<br />@Briana :I lurv you. Thanks.<br />@Velosnaps: So what should I do with all my awesome Llisa Keypas books?? You want 'em?Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10920104559343925583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-47469289712444155682009-08-14T20:31:46.987-05:002009-08-14T20:31:46.987-05:00I promise that I'm not laughing AT you, but th...I promise that I'm not laughing AT you, but this post did make me laugh. Put down the romance novel, and step away. I repeat: step away from the romance novel. It's for your own good. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-76849797242659114542009-08-14T20:20:00.121-05:002009-08-14T20:20:00.121-05:00I just want you to know that I think you're se...I just want you to know that I think you're sexy and amazing. Let me stress amazing. Not what you're looking for but thought I'd mention it anyways.Reclaiming the Momenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04529115649877066165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-57962011427829332682009-08-14T19:53:21.903-05:002009-08-14T19:53:21.903-05:00I have no answers. But I wanted to let you know I ...I have no answers. But I wanted to let you know I am going a little stir crazy, too. I am a jeans-and-pub sort of person, myself, so I'm not looking to hit the clubs. But I would love some energy, something new, just ... something. Anything, really.<br /><br />I hope you figure it out. And if you do, please let me know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8392034857491788011.post-8725932033081726672009-08-14T17:16:10.372-05:002009-08-14T17:16:10.372-05:00Personally, I think you're wrong about this: &...Personally, I think you're wrong about this: "I can't flirt with the most titillating person at the table because I can't: I'm married."<br /><br />Maybe I'm alone here, but I think there's <i>nothing wrong with flirting.</i> Flirting doesn't mean you don't love your husband or your child, or that you don't want to be married any more. You can appreciate a connection with someone without taking that person home with you.<br /><br />Wear your stillettos and low-cut top to the grocery store, check out the cute checkout guy, and tap into all that sexual energy when your husband comes home.NOELLE ALOUDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00084772004964983968noreply@blogger.com